Focus on the how not the what by Corey
● Quote: “Usually the issue (call it the what) triggers some difference between you and your spouse that creates tension – more for one spouse and less for the other. The more important the what is to you, the quicker you become emotionally reactive.”
● Time to read: 3 minutes
● Work Safe: yes
● Summary: Although your reactivity to issues may be a sign of maturity, the way you communicate through it dictates which direction you are headed in. Being able to soothe yourself about getting what you want will make communication with your spouse more clear.
● Perspective: Educational